stop being judgmental

Monday, July 4, 2011

assalamu'alaikum w.b.t and great day to all


i bet all you people out there sure have got some idea on the topic that i'd like to bring up today .  well , i know that most of the people might think that this is something that had been spoken of many many times before . but , each of us have our own point of view to be brought up , right ??

well , let us not waste anymore time speaking nonsense , therefore , i shall proceed to my point . first and foremost , i apologize to any of you people out there if you find this topic rather lame or sensitive . well , let's just take it with an open heart and mind , shall we ??

everyone in this world , which includes me , have their own personal opinion on matters that happen around them . well , for me it's fine if you wish to express them out loud , but you have to ensure that it won't hurt anyone's feeling , whether you know them or not . this is what our people lack of , to be frank of it though . it's just as if you're a numb person without any feelings in you . have you ever thought of it before ??

one of the habit that seems to be popular among our people is that we tend to judge a person based on our first sight without any effort of knowing about it / them before hand . that is just way too much , you see . a simple definition of judgmental is making judgments especially ones based on personal opinions or standards , which in a way making oneself feels better , by hurting others which usually caused by closed mindedness, and a lack of manners. are you one of these people yourself ??

if you're not , than stop doing it . i plead all of my friends out there , to stop being judgmental towards others . we have feelings and we ought to take good care of it , let alone our feelings or others . 

i know how hard it is to talk about judgment without being judgmental myself . so why don't we work on it together , ok ??

well , lets view one of the videos by matluthfi

10 heart throbbing words:

syAzAnA said...

dont judge the book by its cover kan?

eh, sama lak post. hehe

Video MatLuthfi Terbaru!

.:|kamaryeah|:. said...

what a coincidence~

Hans said...

I love this new video from matluthfi
so entertaining and very nice

Juvana Episod 11

.:|kamaryeah|:. said...

there's no doubt about it~
die sgt berbakat...
plus dgn riak nye yg sgt cool~

Shafiq said...

Don't judge the book by its cover isn't it?

darla carolina said...

yeah ! I LOVE THIS ONE ! ramai yang pandang pelik bila I speaking . btw , I speak when I thought it's needed . Don't judge a book by its cover and do not judge the people just by the way you look at them right :)two thumbs up for you !

hamzah ian said...

buzzz.. hehe

.:|kamaryeah|:. said...

either way it brings the same meaning~
just stop judging others...
i guess..

.:|kamaryeah|:. said...

@darla carolina
to be frank...
i adore those who have the courage to speak in english~
good job to you to dear~
and don't stop speaking but do stop judging...

.:|kamaryeah|:. said...

@hamzah ian
cool lah hamzah ian~
thanks taw~


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